(you know, when you miss a day or so of reading and you find post after post of really funny stuff that catches your eye...
and you kick yourself for being absent)
that is me.
so during my reading, I wondered upon a cool poem. Decided to re-post (is that like re-gifting? i am really bad about that too)
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need You have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an End.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
Fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
Come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh..
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
Relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
I love this poem. Like I love the person that posted it. I have every faith and belief that this to shall pass. By this I mean "this" hesitation and uncertainty and fear. I believe that in time it will work out and be okay. I will admit that I don't know how to start it all. Don't know how to ask you to talk to me and not about what was or was not done, but just questions like
what is your favorite color
what do you want to be when you grow up
who was your first best friend
and who did you "just know in your heart" at age twelve, that you were gonna marry
I wish we could start, not with the heavy stuff. but the this is who i am stuff?
How do you put that in a letter?
maybe you just put it in a blog. and then the person it was intended for reads it. and she sends you a letter, a sort of mini-biography. and you send her one back. and soon those letters become frequent, then the letters turn into phone calls which turns into a visit or two...
just maybe.
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